By Sarah Baker
Finding Success in
Everything You Do
Have you ever felt miserable about things in life?
Frustrated about how nothing seems to work out? Plagued by obstacle after
obstacle standing in your way? Considering giving up? Stop right there. Don’t
do it. No matter the situation, no matter the obstacle standing in your way,
never give up. If you really want it, you can have it. There are people in this
world just like you, but these people have taken their obstacles and shoved
them out of the way to pave way for their success.
Oprah Winfrey
Oprah has very publically told people about her own
hardships in order to try to be an inspiration for others. She was born to an
unwed teenage mother and spent the first six years of her life living with her
grandmother, wearing dresses made out of potato sacks. She was molested by two
members of her family and a family friend which ultimately forced her to make
the decision to run away at age 13. When she was 14, she had a newborn child
pass away shortly after it was born. She then went back to live with her mother
who sent her to live with her father. This caused her to turn her life around.
She won a full scholarship to college and a beauty pageant, where she was
discovered by a local radio station. That is where is all began. She is now worth an estimated $2.7 billion.
Oprah Winfrey: Now and Then |
John Paul DeJoria
John Paul’s parents divorced when he was just two. Before he
was even ten years old, he was out selling Christmas cards and newspapers to
help his family financially. Shortly thereafter, he was sent to live in a
foster home in Los Angeles. He spent a bit of time in a gang out in L.A. before
joining the military, where he began to turn his life around. He worked for
Redken Laboratories for a short period of time before taking out a $700 loan to
create John Paul Mitchell Systems. When he first began the company, he sold
shampoo door to door while living out of his car. John Paul has also had a hand
in various other industries, including Patron Tequila. Today JPM Systems is
worth over $500 million.
Leonardo Del Vecchio
Leonardo was born one of five children who could not be adequately
taken care of by his widowed mother. Because of this, he grew up in an
orphanage. Growing up, he worked in a factory, where he lost part of his
finger, making molds for auto parts and eyeglass frames. At the age of 23, he
opened his own molding shop. This eventually expanded to become Luxottica, the
largest maker of sunglasses and prescription eyewear in the world. They make
brands like Ray-Ban and Oakley and own retail stores such as Sunglass Hut and
Lenscrafters. Luxottica is worth an estimated $10 billion.
J K Rowling
JK Rowling didn’t live the rough childhood that the others
above did, but she had her share of hard times as an adult, before Harry Potter. In the early '90s, she was
a recently divorced woman, with a dependent child, living on welfare. She
completed most of the Harry Potter books
in cafes, as walking around with her daughter was the best way to get her to
sleep. With the right motivation and story, she went from welfare to being
worth about $1 billion.
You Don’t Have to be Famous
to be Successful
All of these stories are about people who have overcome
obstacles to become rich and successful in business, but I want to tell you
some stories about people, who have overcome a lot in their lives. They may not
be billionaires, but they are pretty successful.
Cinderella from Rags to Riches |
Me
Personally, my life has been a rollercoaster. I am one of
eight children, number two in line. My father owns his own construction business, as his
father before him. My mother didn’t work because she was busy raising eight
children. My father’s business was constantly up and down with the housing
market. One year, we would buy a pool, the next year, we had to sell stuff. He
used to own a lot of rental properties, some of which he inherited from his
father, but all of those were eventually sold off. About six years ago, the housing market was
booming and my father finally built his dream home. A house where we all had
our own rooms, a pool, and arcade games and such in the basement.
A couple years later, everything went downhill. My family went bankrupt, and we lost the house and most of the things in it. My mom ended-up getting a job for the first time in over 20 years. Some weeks, the only reason we were able to have food on the table was because she had a job making minimum wage.
During all of this, I was raped and verbally and physically abused by a boyfriend. Everything seemed like it was falling apart around me. I graduated college and had lost hope on ever being able to find work in my field. After a bit of moping around and feeling sorry for myself, I decided to put myself out there. I applied for jobs, and I picked myself up. I may not be rich and have a lot of money in the bank, but I am finally successful. I have overcome many things in my life to become the person that I am today. I have people who love me, a job that I love, and everything I need to make me happy. Would more money be nice? Of course, but I don’t need it to be successful. I am successful because of who I am and what I have done, not because of what my bank account says.
A couple years later, everything went downhill. My family went bankrupt, and we lost the house and most of the things in it. My mom ended-up getting a job for the first time in over 20 years. Some weeks, the only reason we were able to have food on the table was because she had a job making minimum wage.
During all of this, I was raped and verbally and physically abused by a boyfriend. Everything seemed like it was falling apart around me. I graduated college and had lost hope on ever being able to find work in my field. After a bit of moping around and feeling sorry for myself, I decided to put myself out there. I applied for jobs, and I picked myself up. I may not be rich and have a lot of money in the bank, but I am finally successful. I have overcome many things in my life to become the person that I am today. I have people who love me, a job that I love, and everything I need to make me happy. Would more money be nice? Of course, but I don’t need it to be successful. I am successful because of who I am and what I have done, not because of what my bank account says.
Success: It’s more Than Just a Number
Success is more than just money. It’s a state of mind. It
cannot be measured by ones bank account but by what they have overcome and what
has led to who they are today. Just because you’re rich doesn’t mean you’re
successful and vice versa. It can be personal success, which is the best kind
of success. Success is about how you feel inside. You can only truly fail if
you fail yourself. You can only truly succeed if you yourself feels successful.
No matter what you are doing and how much money you have, if you feel
successful, then you’re a success. Did you dream of being a teacher and now
you’re a teacher? Then you are successful. Did you dream of being a writer and
now you’re a writer? Then you are successful. Did you dream of being an actress
or a dancer and now you are? Then you are successful. Did you overcome
something in your life? Then you are successful. No matter what you are or what
you do, if it was your dream and you’ve accomplished it, then you are
successful.
Italian Goddess Sophia Loren went from rags to riches: a young Neapolitan girl who came from poverty & conquered Hollywood and the world with her beauty & charm. |
Follow Your Dreams
and Be the Success You Aim For
This article may be about people who have overcome hardships
to become successful. But even more, it’s about following your dreams, doing what you
love and becoming what you want to be, regardless of who says you can’t, who
says you can and what has happened in your life. It’s never too late. Just
follow your dreams, Fashionistas, and be a success! Until next time xoxo.
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